Many people's style of speaking is such that we just want to keep listening. It happens
A recent survey has revealed that there are many reasons for failure, but one of them is the inability to speak. Man pays the least attention to it. Even if he has a very noble knowledge of his field, he speaks in such a way that no one goes after him!Much has been said and written about speaking but very little is understood. Communication skills are not just for work, business or business. Talking is also important for maintaining harmony with one's own people. Many of us say that his tongue is like an ax. Yes, there is a tongue that pierces a man. There are also tongues that make a frightened man sit up, make a crying man laugh and fill a sad man with excitement!
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‘It is bitter to speak but a good man at heart’, that is also what we are saying and hearing for many. Even if the heart is clean but the tongue is bitter, people avoid getting close. If you need it and if you have the compulsion, it will listen, but like another match, it will immediately make a distance. It is also said for many geniuses that if only he could control his tongue, where would man be today!
Well, what should be careful in speaking? First of all, before you say anything, you should listen carefully to what the other person is saying. We don't listen to anyone to understand, most of the time we listen to answer. Not everything is asked to be answered, most things are done to explain the situation, circumstance, work or planning. Even if we give the same answer, we don't know where. We talk less to-the-point and respond by turning things around.
See an example. One manager asked her employee. When will the goods of today's order be shipped? The employee said, "Look, the goods will still be shipped to Mumbai today." We will fulfill the order of Delhi tomorrow. The ultimate day is a holiday. On the fourth day, we will finish two or four small orders. Maybe on the fifth day the turn of the order you say will come! Now the manager's question had to be answered in two words on the fifth day. Instead I told the whole story. Yes, he asks why it will happen in five days and it is okay if you give such an answer. There are very few people who give two-to-point answers!